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Wednesday, March 28, 2012
How do you recover from forgetting a friends birthday?
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Paula Deen Y'all
So as of late, I've become even more aware of the things that my family eats and have been dead set on minimizing fast food and prepackaged baked treats, etc. Preservatives? Blah! Hydrogenated Oil? Yuck!
It's very easy, affordable, and honestly it just plain feels good to feed your family some of your own homemade baked goods!
This recipe is crazy affordable. You may have all but two of these ingredients at home. I'm going to make it this week and take a pretty picture for y'all. ( channeling my inner Paula)
***Remember to WHIP the whipping cream or you'll have a mess***
Mae Dawson's Hoosier Sugar Cream Pie
Recipe courtesy Paula Deen
Directions
Dot butter bits all around top of pie. Sprinkle with nutmeg. Bake for approximately
10 minutes, and then reduce the heat to 350 degrees F and cook for approximately
30 more minutes. Cool to room temperature and then refrigerate until chilled. Serve chilled.
Cook's Note: If using a glass baking dish, lower oven temperature by 25 degrees F.
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Baby come back!
Friday, March 23, 2012
Whitney Houston: When "WISHING" doesn't work
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/whitney-houston-crack-whack-2002-interview-diane-sawyer-entertainment-15566496
When the news broke of her death, and all of her friends came to her defense, including my favorite Kim Burrell, I was relieved. I thought, "Oh good, she returned back to God. She was clean." I was so happy. I had watched the re-airing of the 2009 Oprah interview, and I felt better. It was "well with my soul."
http://www.thelifefiles.com/2009/09/14/watch-whitney-houstons-entire-interview-with-oprah-winfrey/
But on March 22, 2012 the story broke that Cocaine was found in Whitney's system. This made me almost sadder than I was when I found out that she died. She wasn't okay. She wasn't better. And most of all, those mean-spirited, blood sucking reporters and bloggers were right. No matter how I wished that she was better, wished that she was clean, wished that she had overcome that horrid demon, it seems that she had not.
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Breastfeeding Mom Harrassed by TSA...smh
http://abcnews.go.com/Travel/hawaiian-mom-breast-pump-humiliated-tsa/story?id=15835844#.T1TbM_Xd5Bm
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Firing off...Florida teen case
http://www.hlntv.com/article/2012/03/21/jane-velez-mitchell-am-i-suspicious-now
YOU BETTA GO JANE VALEZ-MITCHELL!
Quick...Go in the Kitchen and Make This
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/country-apple-dumplings/detail.aspx?event8=1&prop24=SR_Thumb&e11=apple%20dumplings&e8=Quick%20Search&event10=1&e7=Home%20Page
Country Apple Dumplings
2 large Granny Smith apples, peeled and
cored
2 (10 ounce) cans refrigerated crescent
roll dough
1 cup butter
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1 1/2 cups white sugar
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 (12 fluid ounce) can or bottle Mountain
Dew ™
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| 1. | Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Grease a 9x13 inch baking dish. |
| 2. | Cut each apple into 8 wedges and set aside. Separate the crescent roll dough into triangles. Roll each apple wedge in crescent roll dough starting at the smallest end. Pinch to seal and place in the baking dish. |
| 3. | Melt butter in a small saucepan and stir in the sugar and cinnamon. Pour over the apple dumplings. Pour Mountain Dew™ over the dumplings. |
| 4. | Bake for 35 to 45 minutes in the preheated oven, or until golden brown. |
| ALL RIGHTS RESERVED © 2012 Allrecipes.com | Printed from Allrecipes.com 3/21/201 |
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Wha'ts your Body Type?
Try it when you get a moment.
http://click.youbeauty.com/view/edn7.1ftu/d5f5e029
I'll reveal that I have a Triangle Body Shape.
Here are the specifics. It's really fun!
- Your Shape
- Classically feminine, with shapely legs, a whittled waist, and a curvy bum.
- Your Health
- Triangles have higher levels of estrogen, which signals fertility. Wider hips may protect from heart disease and boost the chances of living longer. With your body shape, obesity increases your risk for memory loss and mental decline; staying trim as you age is important. Take our Body Health Quiz.
- Your Beauty
- Humans are hard-wired to find your figure attractive, from way back in caveman times. A triangle body shape, which stores fat in the hips and thighs, suggests that you can maintain a pregnancy and produce healthy children. Learn about body shape and attraction.
- Fashion Tip: Add structure
Your chest and shoulders are small, so add volume to your upper half. This summer, try a boatneck shirt with horizontal stripes, or a wide scoop neck in bright jewel tones. On chilly evenings, go for a cropped jacket, or a cardigan with three-quarter sleeves.
Stars who have the TRIANGLE body shape are:
Random Nuggets of the Day
I made cinnamon rolls with Bisquick this morning....FIRE...I will post the recipe. They were so yummy and super easy!
Bisquick Cinnamon Rolls
1 egg
3/4 c. milk
1/2 c. sugar
3 c. Bisquick
2 tbsp. melted butter
2 tsp. cinnamon
Heat oven to 350°F. Beat egg, add Bisquick and milk. Stir to make soft dough. Knead lightly, just until smooth. Pat or roll out into rectangle 10 x 8 inches. Spread with butter. Sprinkle with cinnamon and sugar. Roll up tightly beginning with wide side. Seal well by pinching edge of dough into roll. Place sealed side down on ungreased baking sheet. Make cuts with scissors almost through roll at 1 inch intervals. If desired form roll in crescent. Bake 15-20 minutes. While warm, glaze top with mixture of 1/4 cup confectioners' sugar and 2 teaspoons warm water. Makes 10 to 12 slices.
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My husband was teaching my two year old son how to play baseball, he said that in the middle of swinging my son just stopped for a praise break and started singing " Oh give thanks, unto the Lord. For He is good, yes he is good." LOL
Ways to Save Gas!
http://shine.yahoo.com/financially-fit/10-ways-save-gas-money-205400099.html
As you probably know, running the air conditioner impacts your car's overall fuel efficiency. So if you can bear it, try not to turn it on. If you must, turn it off 5-10 minutes before reaching your destination. The car will stay cool enough for that short amount of time. Bonus tip: always park in the shade-that way, your car won't have to work as hard to get cool.
Unless you're using the ski, bicycle, or luggage rack on the roof every week, remove it. It increases the wind resistance on your car which results in more gas used.
The amount of gas used per person is halved each time you carpool to work with a co-worker. Not only are you saving gas and money, you get the added bonus of cruising in the carpool lane!
At any given time, almost 25% of cars need to replace their air filter. Doing so can improve gas mileage by 10%!
It's true: you use less gas when you drive slower. In fact, for every five miles per hour you reduce highway speed, you reduce fuel consumption by 7%.
Moved by Huggies...
Friday, March 16, 2012
Friday's "Bethca Didn't Know" List
- You should use your hood fan every time you cook on the stove. Cooking on range tops releases toxins that are harmful to the respiratory system of young children.
- Men are crazy attracted to a woman with a "mean shoe game." Note to self: gotta have more than three pairs of shoes boo!
- Surfing the Web, standing up, 30 minutes of shopping, and giving your hubby a 20 minute massage; burns 100 calories per activity!!!
- If you're trying to wean yourself off of sodas/pop, replace each soda with a glass of orange juice(sugar), one by one, day by day. You'll realize that you can't (and really don't want to) drink that much orange juice and you'll start finding other alternatives to it. Shout out to Dr. Oz! love that guy.
- Walmart is NOT the overall cheapest place for Pampers or Huggies. Their price is about $9.50 for a jumbo pack. Each week, at least one of the following retailers has Pampers or Huggies on sale and/or offers a coupon: Publix, CVS, Target.
- Kohl's is having a crazy sale this week. And although I'm nowhere NEAR a J. LO fan....her clothes are HOT!
- Burnt pot or pan? Sprinkle some baking soda on it, pour in some vinegar and boil. But if you burned the pan by not watching it the first time, you may need to enlist some help with this one! I'm just sayin'...
- Nepal is one of the poorest countries in the world, and often children are raised IN PRISON when no local guardian is available.
- Drinking coffee actually stimulates your brain and wards off depression.
- Instead of trying to exercise for 30 minutes every day and joining a high priced gym...just get active for 10 minutes per day and it will really increase your health and weight loss ability.
That is all! Have a blessed and peaceful Friday! You made it!
Thursday, March 15, 2012
How SSSSEXY are you?
HOT article by Essence revealing the top 13 things that men find sexy about a woman. Take a look!
http://living.msn.com/love-relationships/love-sex/the-13-things-men-find-sexiest-about-a-woman
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
MAKE that Extra Cash!!!!
This morning msn posted an article about odd but LEGAL ways to make extra cash. Check out the link below. My top three faves are:
3. fiverr.com
2. Surveysavvy.com
1. Selling on craigslist..items only folks...items only
http://money.msn.com/saving-money-tips/post.aspx?post=ac074fd1-9662-4546-b775-3b74a802a49c
Monday, March 12, 2012
Sunday's Choice
I don't know about you, but as Sunday evening wanes I began to get sad and somewhat anxious. As our restful family time comes to an end, I get sad that my husband has to be away for nine hours each day, and I began to get anxious about all of our decisions, responsibilties, and commitments. Add to that, the uncertainty of my job as a sahm. Since kids change every day, I wonder "will I be sharp enough? Patient enough? Loving enough? Fun enough? Strict enough?
Seems like every Sunday, a choice has to be made. Am I going to face this week with peace, faith, and total trust in God? Or, is this week going to kick my scared, worrisome, controlling behind?
It's nearly noon on Monday...and I have yet to make Sunday's choice.
Friday, March 9, 2012
Career woman vs Stay at Home Mom
Who's more desirable? Spicy topic right?!
So the picture I get is that, although many career women have families as well, in a coporate setting, it's not blaringly apparent unless you have a million pics of your children framed on your desk or screensavers of your kids wacky moments, it's easy to take off your mom hat for about 9 hours and just be viewed as a fully capable collegue. And this, along with the confident strut that comes along with the territory, can be very desirable to male counterparts AND husbands.
On the contrary, when a husband of a stay at home mom (Sahm) opens the door to his home, he probably sees a different scene. If it's anything like my home, it's two kids running around while mom is at the stove finishing up dinner with baby on hip, and she's dressed in whatever was clean and able to be put on in the three minutes of privacy that she managed to sneak in before cooking breakfast.
So my mind started to wonder.
If I arrived home at the same time as my husband, dressed up in business casual attire with the scent of accomplisment lingering, would I be more desirable?
Is the first thing that a husband of a Sahm sees when opening the door to his home OVERWHELMING RESPONSIBILITY? Realizing the pressure he's under to provide for the people in front of him?
Please weigh in, I'll be back to post my thoughts later!


Spring cleaning tips...under 50¢
Springtime is near! And if you're like me, you've waited until the last minute to do it. So here are a few tried and true tips that will cost you under fifty cents! (Since you have most of these things in your home.)
*Remember to SPRING FORWARD this weekend for daylight savings time*
1. UNCLOG THAT SHOWER HEAD!
Need: white vinegar, ziploc bag, rubber band. Beware, if you're only a five footer like me, watch your head.
Fill up any size ziploc bag with white vinegar. Submerge the shower head in the bag and secure it with a rubber band. Leave it for a few hours and then remove it. It'll be like new!
2. MAKE THOSE PEARLY WHITES SPARKLE ...I mean your bathroom sinks : )
Need: toothpaste, sponge
Squirt a dollop of toothpaste onto a soft sponge and you'll be surprised at how easily all of the soap scum, grime, etc. comes off.
3. TAKE THE FUNK OUT OF YOUR GARBAGE DISPOSAL!
Need: Lemon, baking soda
Squeeze the juice of a half of lemon down the drain on the side of the garbage disposal. Throw in the entire half of lemon, and handful of baking soda. Turn on the cold water so that it runs down the drain, and finally turn on the disposal and run it untill the lemon is entirely ground up!
THANKS MARTHA STEWART!!!
It MUST be Friday
The only explanation for why I am patiently awaiting an imaginary Mary Poppins type nanny (with a clean background check) to come and pick up these kids.....is because it is Friday. I'm noticing that I have the opposite reaction than I did when I was a member of corporate America. I used to have a refreshing exuberance at the end of the day, excited about a whole two days free from "workin' for the man." On the other hand, as a domestic engineer, by five o'clock on Friday I am a frazzled, mentally and physically exhausted mom that can't wait for my dear husband to walk through the door so that I can run for the hills!!!
That is all.
Thursday, March 8, 2012
"Yeah I won the lottery...but I still get food stamps"
WOW. I was taken aback by the boldness of this woman. Please read this story and share your thoughts below.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Forgivness...it's more than saying " sorry"
People die. Every day. All day. Now two things should come to your mind. One, I could be one of those people and if I should die today, will I go to heaven? Have I asked God into my heart and have I asked him for his forgiveness for things that I carry in my heart against others? Two, if a friend, enemy, frenemy, relative, or aquaintance dies today, was the issue that we were beefing about worth it? Is it worth me holding on to the point where now I can't even let them know that I love them and am sorry? We are all human, we all sin and fall short of the glory of the Lord. Hence, we need a Savior. We cannot do anything without God.
So today FORGIVE, FORGIVE , FORGIVE. Let it GO! Holding on to it is not worth your salvation or your sanity. (YVO) Not only will it bless you, but it will hopefully be infectious to others. Sow some forgivness and hopefully, you'll reap some as well.
Be blessed,
RANDOM MOM!

Tuesday, March 6, 2012
QUICK...burn all of your shirts...
...if they all look very similar to the picture below.
I get it, we are domestic engineers, wives, moms, housekeepers, etc. We have PTA, bible study, play dates, and the oh so fun "date with our local grocer."
BUT, we are also beautiful, smart, curvaceous, vivacious WOMEN! I know that you have style and flair so let's show it off. Be bold, just try something. Your confidence is really what's gonna make it pop. Every day that you get dressed, make it an event! Even if you gotta throw on some sweats to rush out the door to get the kids to school on time, come back home and start again.
It's proven that you feel as good as you look, and if you look "durable"....well...you're inviting a long list of to-do's! Lol. So next time you go out to buy a shirt ( I strongly suggest the thrift store) buy a blousy shirt or a cute cardigan or...A DRESS. GASP!!!!! : )
So let's try it ladies. Pull out some cheap fashion jewelry, funky and chunky, not matchy matchy nana's pearl sets! You'll be surprised. Plus...is it any harder putting on a shirt made of something other than stretch cotton and jersey knit????

The Battle of the Generic Brand Diaper
So, I was raised to never cut corners when it comes to a baby's bottom so I always bought huggies and pampers. Until one day when I made a late night store run with my five month old. The staff was very slim and I couldn't reach the pampers.
After a few moments of waiting I sighed and picked up the store brand. I got home and....I was so happy with the product that I began singin' the Ol' Al Green tune "Let's, let's stay together..."
And the winner is: TARGET UP AND UP BRAND!!! They feel like a pillow and they hold well over night.
Now the list of crappy brands! (pun intended)
3. Walmart Parents Choice
2. Walgreens Brand ties with CVS brand
1. Publix.....and it's so sad because I LOVE this store and it's generic brand of everything else is on point. But....let's just say making diapers is not their ministry.
Monday, March 5, 2012
Sweet Treat for the Week
Glazed Lemon Bundt Cake Recipe - Allrecipes.com
You probably have most of these ingredients at home. I only have six pots/pans and one of them HAPPENS to be a bundt cake pan. Lol.
Anyhoo, I've also been on a mission to drastically reduce all of the preservatives that take up residence in the bellies of my loved ones. I'll be sure to post a picture and review of the finished product!
Update: I made it but of course I ended up dumping all ingredients in and blending it all at once since I forgot to cream butter and sugar
Anyhoo, I'm glad that the recipe called for me to invert because it was not looking too pretty when I pulled it out of the oven. THEN , realized that I had accidently heated the oven above 350 degrees, so I fear it may be dry. Will taste it after it cools and let y'all know!

What Mondays are made of
Sooooo...yeah. It's Monday, woo hoo! It took a little (okay...ALOT) of encouragement from a friend for me to"Get back to bloggin." It would be improper of me to promise you randomness and not deliver. So hang on folks, here it comes!
Friday, March 2, 2012
Should breast-feeding be shown on Sesame Street?
Should breast-feeding be shown on Sesame Street?
WOW!!!! You know, this is crazy! I'm happy to say that I'm surprised at the results of the online poll. I am PRO Breastfeeding! I love it, all for it! It's natural, I believe every mother can do it with the support and education to back her up. But I have to be honest, when my toddler sat down and began to nurse her baby, I almost freaked out!! But then I remembered when my niece did it around the same age, I told her father to not freak out and make her feel like there was anything unnatural about it, or to draw unnecessary attention to her " chest" because of course at time, it had no real distinction from the rest of her upper torso. But I do think we need to go back to the basics. It's natural, it was the initial intention for the breasts anyway, to continue life, for nourishment. Breasts have now been sexed-up and scandalized to such a point that the most natural (not to mention most inexpensive) way to feed our children has become taboo. Tsk Tsk Tsk...In the words of Marvin Gaye " What's Goin' On?"
A Little less YOU : Ode to my Sis
P.S. I didn't know that I hated upstairs neighbors...until they just moved in. LOL LOL Who has that much furniture geez!
***Free Tasty Carbs at Your Local Mall***
Monotany is not the best policy!
- haphazard
- aimless
- arbitrary
- irregular
- incidental
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Soooo...Yeah......About That....
Here are a few things folks say about me and my RANDOMNESS...
SO STAY TUNED....AND JUDGE FOR YOURSELF! (well, the bible says don't judge so..but then...okay so do what you feel!) LOL







